“why exactly lifting heavy (at least 1.5 x body weight) makes us
require more resting\recovery time? “
First off, it's hard to quantify the exact amount of recovery time on an individual basis. There are many factors that will affect recovery including genetics, nutrition, training status (newbie vs. experienced), sleep, fatigue, etc. While it is generally accepted that the recommended guideline for recovery is 48-72 hours, it is only a guideline. Individual rates of recovery vary depending on some of the factors I've indicated.
In their paper, Recovery in Training: The Essential Ingredient , doctors Jonathan N. Mike, M.S. and Len Kravitz, Ph.D. Explain:
“The greater the stress of the workout, the greater the overall muscle
recruitment, and the greater the potential for muscle damage and
soreness, therefore the need for longer recovery time. Muscle recovery
between resistance training sessions for most individuals is also
influenced by other types of training performed, such as
cardiovascular training, interval sprints and sports conditioning
sessions. “
And, paraphrasing from one of their sources, they indicate:
“Rhea
(2003)
concluded that for untrained individuals and trained individuals a
frequency of 3 and 2 days, respectively, per week per muscle group is
optimal, which translates to 1-2 days rest between sessions. However,
this will vary depending on total volume of resistance training,
individual training status, and overall goals (e.g., training for
hypertrophy, strength, endurance, etc.).“
There's no indication in any of the literature that metabolism is directly affected.